Rejection is part of the job search process. You are not going to get every job you want, and one should expect to get a few “thanks, but no thanks” responses along the way. It’s part of the job hunt – it’s also hard not to take it personally.
People are rejected or eliminated from contention for many reasons – it could be timing, the company is looking for someone with more experience, or you could even be too qualified for the position.
Here are some stats about job search rejection to explain how common it is:
One of the reasons you may get so many rejections is because of the jobs you apply for. If you are rejected, know that you are part of the majority of applicants and only a select few will be called for an interview.
Rejection hurts the most when you don’t get a call for a position you really want. There will be times where you feel like you are a great candidate for the position, you have the requirements and experience, and you won’t get a call. If you do, you may make it to the interview stage, and not get the job. This is also part of the job search process – and again, try not to take it personally.
So, how do you deal with rejection? Here are some tips to get through it:
1. Give yourself some time to vent: Not getting a job you want is frustrating, and it can definitely cause you to question yourself and feel bad. Accept these feelings. It’s okay to feel this way – but only for a short period of time. Give yourself a few hours, or a day or two to feel bad for yourself. Then it’s time to move on and continue your job search.
2. Review what happened: Every rejection is a learning experience. What can you take away from the experience? What could you have done better? See if you can get some feedback from the company and connect with the hiring manager. You never know when another position may become available, and if you left a good impression, the company could call you in the future.
3. Resist the temptation to give up: Every interview is one more source of experience. While it’s tempting to dwell on what happened, you will be more productive if you focus on the future and the next step in your career.
You are not going to get every job you apply for – if you do, then we’d love to hear about your approach to job interviews!
For the rest of us, here are some insightful blog posts from our Toronto recruiters about the job search process:
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Bruce co-founded IQ PARTNERS in 2001 and currently operates as Managing Partner. His personal background includes hands-on management experience in sales, marketing and marketing services. He has built management teams for a wide variety of marketing, communications, media and technology companies. He has also participated in several M&A transactions for service-based companies and is frequently called upon as a resource in the planning and negotiation of such deals.